It was all pomp and circumstance the
evening of Thursday, June 16th in the Windham High School Auditorium
as 14 of those 18 graduates marched in to receive their high school diploma.
Most of the graduates believed they would never see the day or participate in
their graduation ceremony. There were few dry eyes as loved ones witnessed
their son, daughter, or friend march down the aisle to “Pomp and Circumstance”
played by local professional musician, Don Pride.
Tom Nash, director of Windham-Raymond
Adult Ed, welcomed and congratulated family and friends in the audience for
their support and encouragement that made the difficult road to success less
challenging for the students.
Marge Govoni, chairperson of the RSU14
School Committee followed the director’s statement by explaining this was her
fourth graduation ceremony this spring.
As she put it, “I’ve saved the best for last.” Why is this the best?
Because each student courageously chose this alternative path despite extraordinary
circumstances, taking that one extra step to complete their degrees.
Like most traditional graduation
ceremonies, this one too came with inductions into the honor society and
special awards. Graduates Arielle Blanchard, Qamar Hussein, and Nadezhda
Filatova were inducted to the National Adult Education Honor Society, by Cathy
Renaud, adult education coordinator. Also inducted were two instructors of
adult education Judy Mandile and Carol Strout. A $500 scholarship as well as a
Central Maine Community College grant was awarded to Josh Davis.
Graduate, Allison MacFeat was the first
student speaker to share her story. She expressed her gratitude for the
non-traditional opportunity to graduate high school. During her years at Gorham
High, Allison faced many challenges that took her off the beaten track to
traditional graduation. The adult ed option gave her the courage, focus, and
motivation to reach her goal of obtaining her diploma, completing all educational
requirements in three months.
Her speech was followed by student, Josh
Davis. Still reeling from the surprise awards he received earlier in the
ceremony, Davis sprinkled his grateful remarks with a touch of humor and
candor. Due to his own challenges, Davis also fell incredibly behind with his
school work and was about to give up on graduating high school. Not only did he
believe he would not receive his diploma, but never once suspected he would be a
speaker at his own graduation. But the fact is, he did graduate with the help
of his big family/friend support group and did so while working double shifts, graduating
in less than a semester.
Guest speaker was Aimee Senatore, the
executive director of Sebago Lakes Region Chamber of Commerce, local business
woman and life coach. Her inspiring address included suggestions for a
successful future filled with passion for life. These four suggestions were: 1.
Overcome fears with curiosity. 2. Choose your circle of influence. 3. Embrace
the victor in you. 4. Always hold the gift of gratitude within you. She
reminded the graduates that no matter what they would choose in life,
challenges will always be present and there will always be more to learn. Embracing
the four suggestions, will be the catalyst to overcome those challenges and
live a courageous life.
Most traditional ceremonies rush the
graduates through the line to receive their diploma. However, this graduation was
performed with intention and honor. Each graduate was given special attention
with a sincere handshake and diploma presentation from Sanford Prince,
Superintendent of Schools, followed by a moment of silence and then loud
applause as the graduate walked off stage.
A few graduates took time after the
ceremony to share pieces of advice. Chantelle King’s only challenge was that
she wanted to graduate at a faster pace than the traditional route. She tested
out of high school, scoring exceptionally well. It was her personal goal to graduate
early and join the Navy. She will be leaving for Monterey, CA in September.
Chantelle’s choice can be a reminder to follow dreams in unique ways. Teacher
and honor society inductee, Judy Mandile, was once a student herself in adult
dd. She now teaches courses in accounting and Microsoft Office and is the owner
of Mandile Tax Services, LLC. Her life is an example that we never stop
learning and growing. Josh Davis, who suffered from severe depression and faced
great obstacles offers this one piece of advice, “The biggest thing to remember
when one is about to give up - is to never believe you are out of options.”
Let the 2016 graduates of Windham-Raymond
Adult Education remind us that through hard work, perseverance, focus, and
courage – we can all overcome our personal challenges and be the master of our
own destinies, living the life we love and envision.