For 35 years, Kathy Hansen has been matching high school
students up with families in southern Maine as a part of CCI Greenheart which
has offered cultural exchange programs in the United States that connects
Americans with international students since 1985. She has had many of the
students in her own home for a semester or for a school year, and she
recommends that everyone try hosting.
“The biggest obstacles, time, no one has time. Money, no
one has extra money and space. They don’t need their own room, just their own
bed. These are easily resolved,” Hansen said. “It’s like a gift. You get more
back than what you’re giving.”
Hansen recommends that the exchange students get thrown
into the mix of a family. The fit in and become one of the family. “Kids in
your home become global thinkers,” she said. She also added that they usually
become international travelers, learn about world peace and public diplomacy.
“The cultural experience is so worth it.”
The students move into the host homes, attend school,
play sports or participate in the school play. They have their own lives and
are typical teenagers living under the rules of the family.
When Hansen had her first exchange student stay with her,
the girl became like a daughter to her and this past summer, that girl’s
children came to stay with Hansen.
When she places a student, she looks for things the
family might have in common with the student, like musical skills or playing
soccer. Sometimes she can match up a family with someone from their country of
lineage.
CCI Greenheart receives 68,000 applications every year
and 2,000 are accepted. Twenty-two of those will arrive in Maine. The program
is sponsored by the United States Government. A program like this gets students
from all over the world together to learn to work together, do presentations
together and realize that working together can change the world.
Each year the students in Maine hold an international
evening to show off the style and food from their country.
They also do a leadership project which is putting on a
fundraiser for the Ronald McDonald House. It is a requirement that they
volunteer and since Hansen has a connection with the Ronald McDonald house, she
has them work there to raise money for their programs. It is this volunteer
component that sets CCI Greenheart apart from other exchange programs. Some
called F1 are academic programs where a host family will hopefully have a
relationship with the student, but often times are just a place to live while
the student attends school.
The host families for CCI Greenheart are vetted and
approved before the students come here. They can not have a felony charge and
not be on general assistance like food stamps or housing assistance. They do
not get paid, which is another difference between CCI and the F1. Hosts for CCI
are given bios of the students with their interests and goals. After a match is
made, pictures can be exchanged and the family and student can talk through
social media or email.
Families who have hosted in the past have been senior
citizens in their seventies, single mom who worked fulltime and worked with a
neighbor to help and even families with little children. The exchange students
are very attentive to their host siblings, Hansen said.
“Something special changes the dynamics in the families.
They hear about it and say ‘that would be so good for our family and how can we
make it happen,” she added. The local coordinator must be within 120 miles, but
most in this area a closer in case there is an issue, which is rare. Sometimes
it’s just not a good fit, to the student can be moved.
There are many opportunities to try hosting before
committing to an entire school year. This summer from July 9 to 29, students
from France will be coming to American to learn about culture and share their
culture with community members. The students speak some English and will
require meals, but will arrive with his/her own medical insurance and spending
money.
There are other opportunities to have a student for two
weeks. With the shorter stays, the students usually have activities planned by
the coordinator.
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With the longer stays, family vacations might come into
play. The students are asked if they want to go and they pay their own way or
half of a room for the other children in the family. If there is an issue with
an exchange student, Hansen will come in to make sure bills are paid to the
host family, if necessary, or to sort out awkward issues. She calls herself
“the enforcer.”
“Eighty-seven percent of families are happy they hosted
because it’s such a wonderful experience,” said Hansen.
“It’s so wonderful that when they leave they take a part
of your family with them,” Hansen said. “We love all these kids and we want to
find homes for them.” For more about CCI Greenheart, visit
www.cci-exchange.com, email
khansen@ccigreenheart.org or call
6653-1007.