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| L-R: Town Selectman and Church Trustee, Rolf Olsen; Raymond Fire EMS Chief, Cathy Gosselin, Tom Wiley, Joe Bowie (son in law) Mary Bowie (daughter) and Brenda Olsen, Raymond Arts Alliance and Church Treasurer. |
Mary Bowie could have
lost her father on one of the happiest days of her life. On Memorial Day 2019,
at Bowie’s wedding reception, Tom Wiley collapsed on the dance floor. Fortunately,
the right help was available, and he survived the ordeal.
“Without the aid of trained people who know CPR and an AED at the reception, I may not be here now” said Wiley. While three men at the wedding who had CPR training (the bride’s uncle Danny; her new father-in-law Chris; and one of the groomsmen, Tyler) sprang into action, that alone may not have been enough to save Wiley. Fortunately, the reception site, Camp Ketcha in Scarborough, had an automatic external defibrillator (AED) on site. The men were able to revive Wiley before EMS arrived.
Wiley didn’t have any
symptoms of heart trouble like chest pain, headache, nausea or vomiting that
day. “I
was dancing, and then I wasn’t. I don’t remember anything from beginning to
dance to being outside going in the ambulance,” he said.
Since then, he has
learned a lot about the heart, he said.
He has a defibrillator, does a rehab program, and will meet with a
genetics cardiologist soon. He said he’s had a good support system with family,
church members, and co-workers. “I’m very lucky, and I
want to spread the news,” he said.
Before
his experience, Wiley said, he didn’t understand the importance of the AED. He
works for the city of South Portland and when they purchased some AEDs a few
years ago, he wondered why they were necessary, especially since there was a
fire station right next door.
There
is also a fire station right across from Camp Ketcha, he said, but the
ambulance sent for him came from somewhere else. “I was told that I was the
third cardiac arrest that day in Scarborough, and I was the only one that
survived,” Wiley said. Later, when he
was in the hospital, Wiley received a visit from the Scarborough EMS chief who
told him, “I don’t usually get to talk to survivors.”
Spreading
information about why AEDs are valuable is part of his healing process, Wiley
said. His efforts to raise awareness are already paying off in the community. His
story was the focus of a segment on Newscenter’s 207 last July. He recently ran into someone who told him that
as a result of the news story, his workplace had installed two AEDs.
After the episode of
207 aired, Wiley said, he started thinking about what might have happened if
his cardiac arrest had occurred at Raymond Village Community Church, where he
is a member. “I am always there for meetings, dinners, etc.” Wiley said. “I have even slept in the church vestry as a
scout leader.”
The church is also
used by the community for a variety of functions: scout meetings and events,
concerts sponsored by the Raymond Arts Alliance, community dinners and much
more.
With everything that
happens in the space, he said, he realized how lucky they’ve been that they
haven’t had this issue at the church. Securing a donation of an AED for the
church seemed very important, Wiley said.
He began to look for
organizations that donated AEDs in New England.
During his research, he came across a website for an organization called
In a Heartbeat. When he visited the site, he found a link to his own story.
He applied for a
donation for the church, noticing that although most of their donations had
been to youth organizations, they had also made a previous donation to a
church. In his application, Wiley noted the number of events that happen for
people of all ages at the church. “I even stated that I knew the importance of
preventing sudden cardiac arrest as I was the dad in the story on their
newsfeed,” he said.
After a few months of
not hearing anything, Wiley called the organization. The founder, Mike Papale,
who had experienced cardiac arrest on a basketball court at the age of 17,
called back to say they would likely be able to help, but they needed to wait a
couple of months until after they held a golf tournament fundraiser.
A few more months
passed, and he hadn’t heard back. Then he wrote an article for the church
newsletter centered around the question “Why bother?” This got him thinking about the donation
again, and he decided he would bother, and called once more. That persistence paid off, and the donation
was confirmed. It arrived in late January and was installed at the church on
February 1st, 2020.
Wiley said he
took a shot in the dark in asking the In a Heartbeat foundation for a donation,
since they hadn’t previously made any donations beyond
Massachusetts. The group has donated 124 AEDs to date, Wiley said. Although he hopes
the AED at the church never gets used, he said “I’m grateful for
the organization and the donation. I hope that people would consider making a
donation to that group themselves.”
