Dolby Funeral Chapel sold to husband/wife employees - By Walter Lunt

In-house transaction ensures little, if any, changes to services

The Dolby Funeral Chapel, long a Windham institution that is the source of service and comfort to local families in grief, has changed hands. It’s been sold “…but I’m still here,” Tim Dolby said on Monday. But now he’s there in the capacity of an employee. The familiar establishment in the Newhall section of River Road, as well as the chapel in Gorham, was purchased about four weeks ago by Kristin and Eric Segee, both funeral directors, who have been employed by Dolby for the last three years. The Dolby business name will be retained.

I think everybody involved “wanted to avoid a sale to a big corporation,” Eric speculated, “If Tim could be here forever, I’m sure he would.”

“I’ve done this for a long while, but it was time for some kind of change,” Dolby said. In addition to the Dolby family having operated the funeral service for decades, Tim was also Windham fire chief for a number of years.

The Segee’s are licensed and certified morticians, and in addition to their work with the Dolby funeral chapels they have also worked at funeral homes in Portland and Bangor. So far, patrons have reacted with a mix of surprise and acceptance, said Eric.

“Most respond with ‘Oh, how sad, but good for you’.” And, he added, most are glad to learn that Tim is still very involved. 

On the topic of possible changes to the operation and physical plant, the Segee’s agreed there will be little, if any. “We want the same level of service and commitment to the community,” said Kristin.

Eric said both he and Tim have agreed on the need for one set of improvements to the chapel facility. Technology. Especially the electronic options which are now limited to cassette and CD players. The plan is to modernize by offering multiple flat screen TV’s that will receive wireless video, still pictures and musical playlists from a patron’s smart phone, which are utilized as tributes to the deceased. In addition, Eric said the website will be revamped and expanded.

“Years ago, if you knew the deceased’s church affiliation you knew the kind of memorial service that would be expected. But today the range of funeral and memorial services are vast and varied.

“The new website (expected to be in operation in four to five weeks) will be used to educate consumers about the now infinite personalization options.”

Another long range goal, he added, might be to enlarge the chapel to accommodate the growing number of people that attend services.

At nearby Thayer’s Store, proprietor Jim Quimby said the news of the Dolby sale took him and his wife, Judy, by surprise. “It’s the end of an era,” he quipped. He said the most frequent response from his startled customers is, “Are you kidding me?”

“Changes in your neighborhood, like any change to your lifestyle, take time to get used to,” he said. “People are reluctant to embrace change. But it’ll work out…(the new owners) seem to be nice people – very congenial.”

The Segee’s (pronounced suh-ghee) seem to be comfortable and content in their new role at the Dolby chapel. They say they’ve gotten to know at least 100 families during their employment there.

“We’re excited, but a little anxious with the new endeavor,” said Kristin, smiling. Eric, who grew in East Machias, indicated they’ve settled in for the long haul. “We like living in Windham.  The town is like a hybrid, it’s got the feel of a suburb, but the character of the old farming community is still here.” Everyone seems to know and care about each other.

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WHS alum entertain @ 18th Nickerson Scholarship Concert - Elizabeth Richards

On Thin Ice – rescued dog “doing fine” - Crews display teamwork - By Walter Lunt

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Windham High School alumni entertain at 18th annual Richard Nickerson Scholarship Concert - By Elizabeth Richards

More than 20 Windham High School alumni gathered to share their talents and support a music scholarship on Saturday, January 3^rd, 2016, at the 18^th annual Richard Nickerson Scholarship concert.

The evening featured a variety of styles, from Broadway favorites and old standards to the modern music of Adele. Though many of the numbers were solo acts, The Side Notes, a mixed voice a cappella group, sang in delightful harmony with a wistful Sting song and an energetic Beach Boys medley. Also interspersed among the solos were a duet by sisters Jessica and Jenny Wood, and a father/daughter duet by Matthew and Brenna Ryder.

Concert highlights included original acts that exhibited the comprehensive talents of two Windham musicians. 2015 graduate and RNS scholarship recipient Ceili Spaulding performed a powerful, soulful original song titled You Take. 2011 graduate Logan Burns also presented a strong, engaging original piece.

The finale was a moving rendition of I’ll Stand By You, a song that seemed particularly relevant to the event. Production Manager Janelle LoSciuto, the 2002 scholarship recipient, said the award has played a part in many of the participant’s lives. “It is former students coming together to support current students. I think that’s special,” she said.

The Richard Nickerson Scholarship fund was started in 1997 by parents of the Windham Chamber Singers in appreciation of Dr. Richard Nickerson, director of Windham High School choirs and the Windham Chamber Singers. Each year, $1,000 is awarded to a graduating senior who plans to pursue music in some way during his or her college experience. LoSciuto said that although recipients don’t always choose music as their major, “They always carry their passion for music with them.”

LoScuito says alumni are happy to return for the scholarship concert. “A lot of people who received [the scholarship] feel connected to the program and the school, and are willing to give back this way,” she said.

The net is cast wide when seeking participants and any alumni who wish to participate are welcome. LoScuito said she begins with a mailing list of former WHS music students and those who have participated in the concert previously, and then takes it to a more personal level through social media, phone calls and emails. If the group was too large, they might ask performers to do duets or ensemble pieces, but usually they end up with just the right number of participants, said LoSciuto.

2017 will mark the 20^th anniversary of the scholarship program though due to a snow cancellation in 2010 it will only be the 19^th concert. LoSciuto said that next year’s concert, which will be held, as usual, on the first Saturday in January will be a larger and more exciting event which will include an alumni chorus directed by Dr. Nickerson.

On Thin Ice – rescued dog “doing fine” - Raymond, Gray, New Gloucester crews display seamless teamwork in rescue operation - By Walter Lunt

Mishka, the dog rescued from icy Notched Pond just before New Year’s, is in good condition at her home on Inlet Pond Road in Raymond.

Mishka is back to her old self.

The dog, described by first responders as a light colored lab mix, fell through thin ice on Wednesday morning, December 30 off the west shore of Notched Pond in Raymond. Officials said a neighbor was alerted by the sound of disquieting, incessant barking and was led to the pond by Mishka’s sister dog, Senga (now credited with saving Mishka’s life). There they saw Mishka, about 150 feet offshore, struggling to climb back onto the ice. A call to 911 alerted rescuers in Gray, New Gloucester and Raymond. Units from Gray, which were closest to the scene, responded first under a mutual aid agreement with Raymond. All three departments answered the call off North Raymond Road, including the Gray cold water rescue team. Fire Chief Kurt Elkanich said the first challenge was getting from the road to the pond, with emergency responders having to trudge with their gear 400-500 feet through a wooded area, then down a steep 50 foot embankment that was blanketed with snow and ice.

Captain Nick Hutchins and Lieutenant Chris Desjardins donned water rescue suits and proceeded on their bellies to the struggling dog, who was close to exhaustion. Desjardins, in the lead, said that the ice gave out under him as he neared the dog…”And I knew, I’m going swimming.” He said the dog, its energy practically spent, put up no resistance. Buoyant in his rescue “gumby” suit, Desjardins cradled the dog, limp with exhaustion, and passed her off to Hutchins, who inched his way back to safe ice.

Captain Scott Doyle of the New Gloucester rescue team then took the dog, who was docile and shaking, and began what officials described as a strenuous, treacherous climb up the icy 80 degree embankment where another rescuer took the dog to a heavy rescue vehicle. Doyle said the inside of Mishka’s ears had turned purple. Once inside the vehicle, Mishka was wrapped in jackets and blankets strewn with heating pads. Raymond chief Bruce Tupper contacted the dog’s owners, who arranged transport to the veterinary hospital in Poland.

Desjardins said he estimated the dog probably had only minutes left in the water before the operation would have been a recovery instead of a rescue.

“You hate getting calls like that one,” Chief Elkanich said, “but when it ends that way it’s very gratifying.” Doyle, of the New Gloucester department, said training and certification of cold water rescue teams really pays off, “It’s prideful for all of us. This rescue operation was more unique than most, (all the departments) came together like seamless team.”

For ice safety, it is recommended that at 3 inches of ice or less, stay off. Four inches is good for ice fishing, walking , cross country skiing. Five inches is okay for one snowmobile or ATV. At 8 to 12 inches it’s safe for a small car or pickup to be on the ice. At 12 to 15 inches, it’s okay for a medium truck. Safety first. Be safe on the ice.

Be The Influence Coalition welcomes new director - By Elizabeth Richards

The new director of Windham’s Be the Influence (BTI) Coalition is no stranger to substance abuse prevention work. With more than 15 years of experience in the field, Becky Ireland takes the reins to manage the Drug Free Communities (DFC) Grant awarded to the coalition in October.

Ireland began her career as a coordinator for a DFC grantee in NH, which gave her the foundation for DFC work. She is enthusiastic about the model, which brings many different sectors of the community together to look at their local issues and local solutions for those issues, she said. “It’s not a situation where you’ve got some outside governmental agency telling you what your community needs, it’s about your community partners coming together and talking about it,” she said.

For the past several years, Ireland has been a contractor for the state office of Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services. In that position, she helped develop programs to support communities across the state in addressing underage drinking.

Ireland said she’s impressed with the BTI leadership team and the work of the coalition. “It’s very strong in that the members are really engaged and are really partners, which is the true spirit of the grant program and the coalition,” said Ireland. “The staff people are really just a resource to the community to help them bring the grant alive.” 

The BTI Coalition members did a strong community needs assessment, and after looking at root causes and factors that might be contributing to substance abuse, came up with a comprehensive plan, Ireland said. The overarching goal, she said, is to establish and strengthen community collaboration in support of local efforts to prevent youth substance use.

The coalition will strive to engage members of the community from a variety of sectors in the coalition and its activities as well as to increase community and coalition members’ awareness, knowledge and skills around the root causes of teen substance abuse and evidence-based prevention efforts. “We will do this through holding community forums, public awareness and education campaigns, and training for community partners,” said Ireland

BTI will also partner with community members to address young people’s access and factors that support or contribute to the issue, such as youth perceptions about community attitudes and norms.

Finally, according to Ireland, BTI will train and support youth to be peer leaders, educators, and mentors to help increase youth awareness about substance abuse prevention and the benefits of making positive choices.

Ireland started on December 4^th. She said she’s excited by the energy that surrounds the work at the local level. She’s beginning to see people engaged in the work getting excited about the changes they are seeing, she said.

One of the things that Ireland appreciates about working in the field of substance abuse prevention is the collaboration she sees among coalitions across the state. “They understand that substance abuse isn’t an issue that’s unique to any one community,” she said.

Substance abuse prevention work needs to be comprehensive and coordinated, she said, to be sure all the issues are being addressed and there is consistent messaging across communities who are being served by DFC Coalitions. “The coalitions in the greater Portland area really have a great working relationship with each other in terms of sharing resources and finding a way that they can have some strength in numbers and efficiency by working together,” she said.

Her role as director is to support what the community wants and needs, she said. “I’m there to support them but at the end of the day it’s really going to be community driven, and it’s about what they see as the need. I’m just available as a staff person to provide some content expertise and to help make sure that we’re moving the coalition forward in our action plan and doing all I can to make sure the resources of the federal grant are used efficiently and effectively,” she said.

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Fire Fighters “Light Up” Christmas for Four Families - By Michelle Libby

Windham Middle School Celebrates 12 Days of Giving - By Michelle Libby

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Fire Fighters “Light Up” Christmas for Four Families - By Michelle Libby

After many hours of behind the scenes work, Windham firefighters and their families pulled out of the East Windham Fire Station with three decorated fire trucks and more emergency vehicles following behind on their way, with Santa, to drop off presents for four families, including six children.

The event was organized by Lieutenant Chip Jones, who has been doing this for the last four years. Each November he goes to local businesses to gather gas cards, gifts, food, cleaning supplies, gift cards, haircuts, money and anything else families might need. The members of the

fire department also donated to the cause. This year they were able to provide Christmas for four families.

“It was outstanding that we got so many gifts,” said Jones. “Next year we’ll go a little bigger.”

Some stores were not able to donate, but the managers pulled money out of their pocket to help the cause. Waitresses at Bucks Naked BBQ bought gifts with their own money and according to Jones, “They went way over board. There was an overwhelming response from Windham.”

On the way to visit the first family, the trucks stopped to pick up homemade cookies and treats. Then, the caravan of emergency vehicles paused to pick up two more trucks at the Windham Public Safety building before continuing on to visit the first single mother and her three children.

Each family was pre-qualified by the Windham Food Pantry. Many families can only afford to buy one gift for their children. This year these kids are going to get 15 to 20 gifts each, Jones said. “It’s pretty amazing.”

With the lights going and the sirens calling out, Santa and the fire truck procession arrived at the first house.

“The kids are going to be happy,” said mom Amanda Perrin. “It’s nice to know there are good people out there.”

“The house is full of hundreds of presents!” exclaimed Jacob, age 7.

At the second house, the mother and daughter came out to greet Santa and say thank you while the gifts were taken inside.

“I wasn’t expecting all of this at all,” said the mother, who asked not to be identified.

The third family was Stephanie Smith and her 41/2-year-old daughter, Arley, who didn’t have tree, but were assured that they would have one by Monday.

“I can’t believe we don’t even have a tree. We’ve never really sought help at Christmas. It was just really tight this year,” Smith said. 

“We got her everything on her list,” said volunteer Melissa Wing. “We get just as excited about it as they do.”

The fourth family came to meet the fire truck and volunteers at the end of their driveway. “This is more than I expected,” said mom Nicole Adams. “It’s pretty awesome. It’s not something that happens to you every day. I’ve seen other people get gifts, but nothing like this…a bunch of firefighters come to bring you gifts. It’s a real big help to me with the gifts.”

The final stop for the lighted trucks was to the home of Lisa Duncanson, whose husband worked for the fire department before his passing three years ago. Santa made a special trip to see Duncanson’s grandsons.

The Windham Fire Department would like to thank the following businesses for their donations:

Masa Sub & Grill, Gorham Windham Professional Firefighters Association Local 4095, South Windham Firehouse, North Windham Firehouse, Cyclone Hose Company, East Windham Firehouse, Latin Honor Society at Windham High School, The Nail Spa, Lee’s Auto, Benny’s Barber Shop, Molly’s Cupcakes, Buck’s Naked BBQ, Payless Shoes, Marshall’s, Pizza Hut, Dominos, Friendly’s, Hannaford, Shaw’s, Walmart, Windham Jewelers, Innovations Salon & Spa, Dena’s Lobster House and Tavern, Lowes, Applebee’s, Danielle’s Sebago Diner, Smitty’s, Heaven & Earth Day Spa, anonymous donors and family members of the Windham Fire Department.

Windham Middle School Celebrates 12 Days of Giving - By Michelle Libby

Windham Middle School’s student council organized a fun way to gather donations to help the Windham Food Pantry and Barbara Bush Children’s Hospital with their 12 days of giving drive.

The idea came from a brainstorming session with the council. “We thought about things we’ve done in primary and Manchester,” said sixth-grader Riley Parker, who came up with the name based on the 12 Days of Christmas. They wanted to use the word “giving” because some don’t celebrate Christmas, they said.

“The idea totally came from the kids,” said student council advisor Shelly Cook. “The kids really do good things.”

Each day the council asked students to bring in an item, from toiletries and baby items to animal needs and books. On the first and last day, students, who are not allowed to wear hats in school, were able to pay $1 to wear a hat. They raised almost $200, which will go to the Barbara Bush Children’s Hospital.

The sixth grade donated the most items and the top two classrooms were Mrs. Cook with 231 items and then Mrs. Brown at 220 items. The top team will be awarded their choice of a pizza party, ice cream sundae party or hot chocolate party. As of press time, the class had not decided which they wanted.

“It feels really good giving back,” said seventh-grader Ashley Riley. The most successful days were collecting food, toiletries and animal items, Riley said.

“I feel all of it was important. They are things people need,” said seventh-grader Katelyn Smith. “Every year we do something to give back.”

The 12 days of giving gave the students a chance to think about others. The lesson was “It’s better to give than to receive,” said Cook.

One sixth grader and her parents made it a family project, and went shopping every day for what was next on the giving list. The mother told her daughter that “We have enough that we can give to other families,” said Cook.

The items were picked up from the middle school on Tuesday for distribution.

Fundraising Initiative To Keep Windham Family Mobile - By Elizabeth Richards

During this holiday season a Windham family has been chosen by HARK, Inc. to be the recipients of a handicapped accessible van through a fundraising initiative dubbed “Hopemobile for PALS”.

Donna York lost her father to Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS or Lou Gehrig's Disease), a progressive disease that attacks the nervous system, but does not impact intellectual capabilities. She started HARK in memory of her father.

Living with ALS is devastating in many ways, not the least of which is financial, York said. She started HARK to help patients and their families with the financial issues that can arise. Though vans are quite expensive, many families stretch to buy them because they don’t want to be prisoners in their homes, she said. But, they can’t recoup the costs when the van is no longer needed.

She envisioned a program where HARK would buy a van for a family, and when that family no longer needs it, the van will return to HARK to go to another family. “Everybody is different. You never know how long you have,” she said. “A van could go to four or five families over the course of ten years.”

She connected with Anthony Carbajal, a young man with ALS who has become a prominent advocate. Together, they decided to organize the fundraising campaign, with a goal of raising $30,000 for a gently used van. The campaign began on Giving Tuesday and is scheduled to end on New Year’s Day. The intent is that the “Hopemobile for pALS” initiative will be an annual event.

John and Linda Gregoire of Windham were married in 1981. After 26 years of “normal” family life, including raising two sons and all the youth activities, camping, fishing and backpacking trips that go along with that, their world was turned upside down. The Gregoires received devastating news when John was diagnosed with ALS in 2007.

An expert told John he would live a year to 18 months from the time of the diagnosis, but the family refused to accept that prognosis. John has long outlived the doctor’s expectations. “We lived like we didn’t believe him, and that has helped,” said John’s wife, Linda.

After the diagnosis, the family went to work. They have spent countless hours on advocacy and raising awareness for ALS, including starting a foundation called the Hope-JG Foundation (www.hope-jg.org). A visit to the Steve Sailing ALS/MS Residence in Chelsea, MA inspired a vision of establishing a similar residence here in Maine, so that people with advanced ALS won’t need to leave the state to get the care they require.